Losing a loved one is one of life’s most difficult moments. As Muslims, there are specific rites and practices that help guide us through this emotional time, ensuring our departed are honoured with dignity, compassion, and in accordance with Islamic teachings.
This burial checklist provides step-by-step guidance on what to do when a Muslim loved one passes away in Singapore.
1. Ensure the Deceased’s Last Words and Shahada (Testimony of Faith)
If your loved one is conscious during their final moments, gently help them recite the Shahada: “La ilaha illallah, Muhammadur Rasulullah” (There is no god but Allah, and Muhammad is His messenger). This powerful statement of faith is highly encouraged as the final words before passing. If the person has already passed, you may still recite the Shahada near their body as an act of remembrance and prayer.
2. Inform the Family and Begin the Process of Ghusl (Ritual Washing)
Next on your burial checklist is notifying close family members and trusted individuals. Once everyone has been informed, begin preparations for Ghusl, the ritual washing of the deceased. This process is traditionally carried out by family members of the same gender or by trained professionals if needed. The body should be washed an odd number of times (typically three), using clean water and a camphor mixture. After washing, the body is wrapped in a white shroud (kafan), ready for Janazah.
3. Arrange for the Janazah (Funeral Prayer) and Burial
One of the most important components of the Muslim funeral is the Janazah prayer. Work with your local mosque or Islam funeral service provider to schedule this communal prayer, typically held shortly after Ghusl. After the prayer, proceed to the Muslim cemetery for burial. Ensure the body is lowered into the grave on its right side, facing the Qibla. Your burial checklist should also include obtaining any necessary permits or coordination with burial authorities in Singapore.
4. Recite Prayers and Make Du’a (Supplication)
In the days following the Muslim burial, it’s important to keep the deceased in your prayers. Recite Du’a, asking Allah to forgive them and grant them peace and mercy. Encourage others to do the same. It’s also comforting to reflect on their good deeds and share memories with loved ones during this period of mourning.
5. Support the Family and Offer Comfort
Grief can be overwhelming, and the support of family and friends makes a big difference. Offer meals, help with funeral tasks, or simply be present. Islam emphasises community support, so your involvement is both appreciated and spiritually rewarding. This act of compassion should be part of every burial checklist.
6. Maintain Respectful Grieving According to Islamic Etiquette
Islam encourages calm and dignified mourning. Avoid excessive wailing or expressions of despair. Instead, focus on remembrance, prayer, and gratitude for the time you had with your loved one. Supporting each other through this process helps everyone heal while honouring Islamic values.
7. Ongoing Support: Charity and Good Deeds for the Departed
Even after the burial, our connection to the deceased continues. Consider giving to charity in their name, planting a tree, or supporting a cause they cared about. These deeds continue to benefit their soul. Include this in your burial checklist as a way of sustaining their legacy.
Coping with the passing of a loved one is never easy, but having a clear and compassionate checklist can help you navigate the process with confidence and calm. Each step, from reciting the Shahada to arranging the Janazah and offering Du’a, reflects the deep respect and care Islam teaches us to show for the deceased. With the support of your family, community, and faith, you can honour your loved one’s journey back to Allah in the most dignified way.
If you need guidance or support at any point during this process, Jasabudi Muslim Casket is here to help. With years of experience in Malay funeral arrangements in Singapore, our compassionate team is committed to handling every step—from Ghusl to burial—with the utmost respect and care.
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